Here’s what you need to meditate:
- 20 minutes ‘spare’ time
- A quiet place (where you can sit with your eyes closed)
At least, that’s what I’d always assumed.
Turns out I was wrong.
A formal meditation of this kind is certainly useful, but it’s possible to meditate anywhere, and without a moment to spare. This allows you to relax, calm your mind, or manage your mood in the midst of the activity, busyness and stresses of daily life. You can even use these techniques to meditate in busy, crowded and noisy places.
You could meditate:
- when waiting
- whilst commuting
- at your desk
- at the gym
- when you’re put on hold
- in the shower or toilet
- during ads on TV
- during meetings
And you could be mindful:
- whilst walking
- whilst talking
- when eating
- when you’re irritated or upset
- preparing a meal
- listening to music
- playing sport
- during sex
To do this, simply look for opportunities to focus on sensory things, such as:
- the food you’re eating
- the air you’re breathing
- a passing sensation, feeling or emotion
- a song on the radio.
These regular shifts into ‘sensory mode’ anchor you in the present. They also give your brain a chance to rest. You’ll find you feel more relaxed and more appreciative. And you’ll probably find yourself able to process your thoughts and emotions more efficiently.
‘Spot’ Meditation Instructions
The following spot meditations, inspired by Eric Harrison at Perth Meditation Centre, are short meditations that you can do throughout the day, wherever you are. For best results:
- Aim to do a spot-meditation — even if it’s only for 10 or 15 seconds — every hour.
- Work to make these mini-meditations habits that you can rely on.
- Use reminders or ‘triggers’.
e.g. When you see a car like the one you drive, use that as a reminder to relax your shoulders, breathe more deeply or to check in with what you’re thinking and feeling.
- Remember that some practices are more useful than others. Choose the ones that work for you.
These mini-meditations — because they are so short — probably won’t leave you feeling profoundly relaxed. They can work very well, however, to bring you back to balance, whenever you feel anxious or stressed, or whenever your thoughts spiral out of control.